If your perception of favors was formed in the late 80's when Jordan almonds wrapped in tulle were the favor of choice, you're in for a pleasant surprise. Today's favor selections are vast and varied - from themed and scented to table decorations and place card holders, they've evolved into much more than a token gift.
Enhance a favor's value by having it serve a dual role - as an element of decoration and a departing gift. Let glass votives provide a home for tea lights, or become miniature vases for flowers. Elegantly encase guest names with silver frames; at the reception they are place card holders, later they frame a keepsake snapshot from your wedding.
Package your favor with detail. Remember, everyone loves to un-wrap a gift. Enclose the favor of your choice in a beaded or organza bag that brings out the color of your decor. Use a decorative box in an imaginative shape to lend a bit of architecture to your table.
CONSUMABLE FAVORS These are always a delight. Delicious options include custom bonbons, cellophane wrapped lollipops, and the showstopper: miniature replicas of your wedding cake. Or how about giving your guests a great start in the morning? Individualized servings of your favorite French Roast can be personalized with your names and wedding date. Tea infusers packaged with several bags of your grandmother's blend share memories and love.
For additional ideas, visit a wedding accessory store or someone who specializes in favors. You'll be amazed by what you'll find. Keep in mind favors don't necessarily have to bear the name of the couple. As long as they represent something personal and meaningful to you, that's what matters.
PRICES Favors generally range between $2.00 to $8.00 each. Of course your selection is infinite. Should you come across an extravagant temptation, one you simply must have but can't afford in great quantities, provide one favor per couple. And for those brides who like the idea of the homemade favor, give yourself ample time to accomplish the task. Remember, you will be responsible for making many. Price out your materials and your time. You may find your savings might not be that significant.
WEDDING ACCESSORIES Look for these accessories at the same store where you find your favors. The term "wedding accessory" encompasses many different things. From ring pillow to guest book to toasting glasses, all are important details in your day and offer fun ways to express yourself.
As you begin planning the major aspects of your wedding, keep an eye out for unique items that will add sparkle and personality to your celebration. Passionate about the past? Ask your relatives for family heirlooms used during their weddings. An antique cake stand, candlesticks to place at the sides of your unity candle, or delicate Victorian handkerchiefs bring a note of sentimentality.
BUTTERFLY OR DOVE RELEASES For couples who'd love to include nature in their celebration, whimsically romantic and definitely unique, butterflies or doves add an elegant note to the bride and groom's departure from the ceremony or reception. First, make sure your venue allows such releases. Next, find out the method and timetable of delivery. And finally, speak with your officiant or coordinator about carving out a time and a moment for the release.
YOUR TIMELINE Three to four weeks before the wedding, set aside an evening with your fiance to sit back and review the accessories you'd like to incorporate in the wedding. Do a mental walk through of the wedding day, outlining each of the items required for the different elements of your ceremony and reception. Assemble these items, making sure they are either delivered to your wedding coordinator or given to the designated individual who will be responsible for them. Arrange for these items to be removed and returned after the wedding.
Though tempting, avoid procrastinating on these seemingly simple purchases and tasks. Some selections will require special order, resulting in several weeks for shipping. And as always, you want the time to add your distinct finishing touch!
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